Should I Finish It? :(?
I’ve been seeing this guy for about three months now.
Because he’s been really busy and has been on holiday in Scotland for 2 and a half weeks recently, I haven’t seen him for FIVE WEEKS. Which I really don’t think is right.
When he came back from Scotland he texted me saying that he really missed me and wants to meet up and has bought me presents and needs to talk to me. I suggested two days to meet up, both of which he cancelled at fairly short notice because he was ‘busy’.
I texted him two days ago saying I really needed to see him at the w/e and needed to talk – no reply. He used to text back really fast, but now it’s generally the next day.
Should I text him saying that it seems to me that he’s lost interest in me, and asking that he tell me outright?
I really like him and missed him over these weeks, but I don’t want to be messed around like this any more.
Thanks for your help. 
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As hard as it may be, let it go. Any guy that would put you on hold like that doesn’t deserve you! Don’t text, don’t call…….let him wonder what you’re doing. So, to answer the question, YES you should finish it!
look, what i do not like on us girls is that we are so soft with men & i think is not good, why you should do any omve ot ihm?? i mean if he want to see you, or if he wanted you, he will call you, & he will ask again to see you /& this time he will show up, you know sometimes is good for men to do their move, if i was you, i would just move on, have you tohught that maybe is somethink else going on with him that you dont know?> think that you could fing someone that he would really be interest in you. do not feel down cause many men do it girl, sometimes we jsut need to move on with our lifes….
I have a feeling that from what you say, there maybe a reason for you to feel that the guy has lost interest which is a shame, but if you feel there is something going on in the background, maybe, instead of just ‘cutting-the-thread’, and possibly misjudging him, I’d let it be for a day or two and wait to see if you get any message or a phone call from him. If you haven’t heard anything in say three days or a week, then it’ll probably be fair to reckon it’s all over, and move on.. And yes, I know it’s not easy, but it just maybe that’s all you can do.. Best of luck in whatever happens.